Thursday – A Little Personal – Lucy Needs to Rest

~ John W. Howell

One of my favorite photos was taken on July 23rd, 2021, as Twiggy and Lucy celebrate the joy of their new turf.

The Producer and I know you have been following Lucy and Twiggy’s antics for the last five years. Because you have invested your time and love in these two, we feel you should know that the time has come for Lucy to take a trip across the rainbow bridge and join her sister Bailey in eternal peace. Lucy has been with us for thirteen and a half years, and we have done our best to make each day a blessing for her. She has definitely made each day a blessing for us.

Pets are the only creatures that love us more than they love themselves. Their sole existence is completely and utterly for their human family. Ultimately, it’s not about their quality of life because they’ve learned to adjust to their illnesses, and life goes on for them-good or bad. As family members, we must realize and accept that all animals are put into our lives to teach us something we could never learn on our own. When that goal is achieved, their mission on earth is complete, and their quality of life to them is perfect.

Lucy has taught us the beauty of unconditional love, both given and received. She came to us as abandoned and mistreated. Even so, her big heart opened to us and then to Twiggy. We must honor her love with heartbreaking measures that will be more than painful for us.

Lucy will be at home with us, and we will be with her when she takes her steps to peace. This will be tomorrow at 4:00 in the afternoon.

Comments will remain open. I’m not sure I will be able to respond now, but I know I will in due time. A “like” on this post represents your best wishes to all of us.

I will be taking a blog break and hope to return on Monday.

 

 

 

 

 

 

144 thoughts on “Thursday – A Little Personal – Lucy Needs to Rest”

  2. John, you articulated our relationship with our pets so perfectly. Lucy had a wonderful life and did her ‘job’ so well, providing comfort and happiness to you, the Producer, and your readers, as well as companionship to Twiggy. She will be missed. I offer sincere condolences to all, most especially to you and your wife.

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  4. John … Your words are wonderful – especially how pets love us more than themselves. I loved Lucy’s wit and wisdom … Bailey’s too … and Twiggy has been the perfect counter to both of them. Losing pets is a horrible feeling – and I know this news has affected me. Peace and strength to both of you.

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  8. I am not expecting a response, spend this time with Lucy. She has brought us all joy over the years and I wish she could know just how much she is loved by us out here in cyberspace. Please hold her tight once for me.

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  14. I love the photo you chose, John, and I’ll always remember her this way. I’m crying as I type this, but I know she’ll be frolicking this way with Bailey very soon. Please give her extra long belly rubs and ear scratches from me. And the same for Twiggy, who I know loves her sister. My condolences to you and yours.

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  17. I send warmth and whatever strength can fly through my heart to you and yours.
    I also send so many OXen they won’t fit in this meagre comments box, so I’m shipping them to you via Trans Love Railroads.

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      1. Dear John,
        I prepaid. I didn’t want you to have to stress today. Anyway, when it comes to shipping OXen, I have a huge credit note! 💋❤️

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  18. My dearest John (and The Producer and Twiggy) – I am sending all my love to you during this most difficult time. I know you love and respect Lucy enough to ensure her passage goes beautifully. She brought so much joy to you and, thanks to your shares, to us. We all knew this day would come but that didn’t stop the tears from showing up. Lots of love to you all. xoxo

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    1. Thank you so much Dale. We are making sure she has not a moment of anxiety during her last hours. She always hated the car ride to the vet so we are bringing the vet to her. I appreciate your words of comfort. Thank you again. XO

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  23. Heart is full of joy for the blessings you have shared with us. And there are tears on my cheeks as I send all of you my love. I hope she gives Bailey a cheeky kiss.

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  24. What a lovely and loving tribute, though I am reading through tears in my eyes. Your compassion and unconditional love shines through. May the experience be peaceful and full of the love you, Lucy, Twiggy and their “Mom” all share.

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    1. Thank you so much for the heartwarming message, Babsje. We are trying to make Lucy’s trip as pleasant as possible for her. For us it will be very painful, but that is what comes with having a blessing like Lucy for so long. Hugs to you.

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      1. You’re welcome. I’m sure Lucy will know how loved she is and will have a graceful journey. And I know that Twiggy will be bereft in her own way, along with you two humans. Peace to all of you.

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  25. As you know we went through this self same situation with our beloved Nutmeg so this resonates. It is so very difficult yet so very essential to do that right thing, as you undoubtedly are. I never met her, I’ve not enjoyed the slobber that only Boxers can supply and yet you’re documentary of her life stands large in this little corner of London. Dog and I will share a moment tonight when we commune on the sofa. I send you all our best and a special best for Twiggy. Take a lot of care.

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    1. Thank you so much Geoff. I do remember when you were faced with Nutmeg’s decline. Lucy has had a wonderful like and we have been blessed sharing it with her. Your words mean a lot. Thank you again.

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  26. My sincere condolences to both you and Molly. Saying goodbye to a family member is a heartbreaking process. I believe you’ll find that the love you shared with Lucy lives forever – in memory and in graced presence. My little Maggy often visits and leaves a smile, even if I can’t hold her now. Sending love and prayers to you and Molly and all your extended family …. ❤️

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    1. Thank you for the kind and uplifting thoughts, Gwen. I will look forward to Lucy’s visits and will also think of Maggy and your words when she does.

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  27. I am so sad, John, but I understand. They depend on us to make this decision, and it’s the hardest thing we ever have to do. I will miss seeing Lucy. She seemed like she had the perfect temperament and such a big heart. Take care. Our thoughts are with you.

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    1. Thank you, Dan. You describe Lucy perfectly. She always had room for another in the big heart of hers. At one time she had to put up with four cats and a silky terrier. They all loved her as well. Thanks for the uplifting thoughts generated by your comment.

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  28. My heart aches for you, John. Our little Bella will be there to greet her. How blessed we are to share the gift of unconditional love with these precious beings. You have a global family that will be with you all in prayer as you say goodbye tomorrow. May she rest easy knowing she was dearly loved. xo

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  29. Oh, John, no! I knew this day was coming, but how my heart aches for you, the Producer, and Twiggy. Having just gone through this myself a few short years ago, I realize how escorting a beloved family pet over the Bridge hurts … and changes your entire world. I feel like I, too, am losing Lucy, having read about her antics for these past few years. Y’all gave her a good life, my friend, and it’s encouraging, knowing she’ll reunite with Bailey and remain pain-free forever. Condolences to all of you, and take all the time you need (it’s hard to write when your eyes are leaking, you know).

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  30. It is never easy to let them go, John. You were generous to have shared her with us. We shall miss her too. Your words are a fine tribute to her and all the pets that come into our lives to teach us what love means. Hugs!

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  33. A perfect photo, John. Lucy and Twiggy look so happy there. My heart goes out to you, The Producer, and little Twiggy. Please know you all are in my prayers. Making the decision you have is never easy – even when you know it’s the right thing to do.

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  34. I feared this post every time a Thursday would roll around and I would wonder if maybe it was that time. That’s what we do as humans, we fear the inevitable. We do it too often, when we really should be taking the lessons learned from our beautiful family members like Lucy: To love each day and to love the people we surround ourselves with. Unconditionally. She taught you and your lovely bride that lesson every day for the last thirteen years and that there is a priceless thing.

    Don’t reply to this even when you get back. A like is plenty fine, just so I know you read this and you understand how much I hurt for you and with you. I love you Boss.

    And to you Lucy, I just want to say thank you for making me smile, all the time. I never met you, and yet you added so much to my life.

    Peace and love

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    1. I have to reply and thank you for your kind and supportive words, Marc. We are feeling the pain and hope that before long the memories of Lucy’s love will tak its place. I love you, Marc. Thank for for your support.

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  35. Oh, my dear friend. I hope you have some comfort in sharing your words and your grief. It’s so hard to let go but they—our furry four-legged friends—depend on us to do so when we know it’s time. I am going to miss Lucy so much. She’s the perfect foil to Twiggy. What a pair 😊

    You gave Lucy the best 13+ years of her life, and I know she gave you the same. My love to you and The Producer ❤️

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind words, Marie. Since Lucy has been a part of our life she has given herself unselfishly to us, Bailey, our four cats and to Twiggy. She also allowed us to bring in rescue boxers that needed a time out before finding a foster. I knew when I started sharing Lucy on my blog there would be a time when I would have to also share my grief. A small price to pay for the joy Lucy has brought. Thank you again and our love back to you.

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  36. Oh, John, I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you and your wife. You both gave Lucy many precious years of love and I know she will leave paw prints on your hearts. I believe our pets will be with us in Heaven, for surely if it is all we could hope for and more, that gift must be there, too. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

    I love the photo you shared. It positively exudes joy. I imagine Lucy running like that on the other side of the rainbow bridge when she meets Bailey again. Extra hugs to little Twiggy. I pray all of you feel the comfort of God’s peace. I know Lucy will carry your love with her when you say goodbye. 💙

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    1. Thank you for your prayers, Mae. It means so much knowing others enjoyed Lucy and her antics with Twiggy. It is a very hard decision and out hears are breaking having to do it. I believe our pets will be with us and I will look forward to that day. Thanks again for your comforting words. Hugs

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  37. My deepest condolences, John. Our dogs hold a special place in our hearts. I wish you and your wife many happy memories of Lucy.

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  38. My heart breaks for you and your family, John. Lucy indeed was a gift sent to your family. And from what we’ve seen over the years, she was a perfect match. May God grant you and your loved ones peace and comfort during your time of grieving. Thank you for sharing Lucy and Twiggy here on your blog. We, too, shall cherish her memory.

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  39. Praying for you and your family, John. I know how hard this is. I hope it comforts you, knowing how much Lucy was loved by all of us, by remembering what a good life y’all gave her, and by realizing she’ll soon be in no more pain. {{Hugs}}

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  43. Oh, John… as a dog lover my heart goes out to your family. I remember Bailey, and I remember when Twiggy came into the family. Dogs are always loving and giving, they’re the rock in our family. Please know at 4:00 P.M. today the sun finally came out. Thank you, Lucy. ❤️

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  48. John, it’s really heartbreaking. I lost my little Boston a year ago in May, he was 14. My condolences go out to you all, may the sweet memories he is leaving with you comfort you. ❤️

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